Girlfriends

I love my girlfriend.  Nothing novel about that, she is fantastic – who woudlnt?  This is my last rant of the night – this is my first day of blogging so I am trying to understand this whole thing.  I have read others blogs, people who have been posting since 2004 – it is literally a web log of their life.  They write everything – sex lives, who they cant stand, personal info.  So, what if these other people you are writing about read your blog?  Is that the point?  Anyways, with Christmas coming up, I am so excited because I spent so much time this year finding cool gifts for GF.   I look back at my previous relationships and wonder what I was thinking.  Obligation.  That is what I was thinking.  You spend so much time with a person, and it just becomes like a daily task.   With GF, it is a whole new world.  When you find someone who has so much in common with you, that thinks about you all day, goes out of their way for you, tells you nice things – someone who genuinely loves you, it is just a great feeling.  Love, to me it isnt so much a feeling as it is an action.  Someone who tries to help you be the best you can be.  I just like thinking about her, she always puts a smile on my face with just a memory.  What I dont get about girls though is how awful they can be to each other.  My GF has a bunch of friends who treat her so poorly, it makes me ill.  They are not in relationships, and they constantly make her feel unwanted because they ‘dont want to talk to someone who is in love’, because they wont understand what it is like to be single.  I dont understand women.